Tribal Elders

An Open Directory Project site

The links

Discussion group: NPD

Discussion group: Psychopaths

1. Children of the Self-Absorbed

2. Alterego, an animated cartoon!

3. Voicelessness

4. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology article: Studies Find Narcissists Most Aggressive When Criticized

5. How to Lie

6. Exits and Entrances, a paper by Adam Phillips..."There can be nothing more narcissistic than believing in narcissism..."

7. Take The Betrayal (trauma) Bond Test from Patrick Carnes' book.

8. You Carry The Cure In Your Own Heart, article by Andrew Vashss

9. Pseudo-Identity and the Treatment of Personality Change in Victims of Captivity and Cults by Louis Jolyon West and Paul R. Martin

10. Out of the Blue-Domestic Violence Comes

11. Excerpts from Patricia Evan's book, 'Verbal Abuse Survivors Speak Out'

12. The Penny Drops

13. What is a cult?

14. Captivity and The Stockholm Syndrome by Sara Lambert

15. Narcissistic Pathology of Everyday Life: The Denial of Remorse and Gratitude by Nancy McWilliams and Stanley Lependorf

16. New Trends in Research by Robert Hare

17. Interpersonal Self-Construction: Lessons from the Study of Narcissism by Frederick Rhodewalt of the University of Utah

18. Social Influence/Persuasion

19. Aggression and Transference in Severe Personality Disorders by Otto F. Kernberg

20. Power and Control Wheel and Equality Wheel

21. Are you married to a P S Y C H O P A T H ? ? OMG!!!

22. The Antistalking Website

23. Audio interview with Michael Scott on antistalking countermeasures

24.Stalking Behavior Site

24. J. Kent Griffiths - lists N traits and situations

25. Captive Hearts/Captive Minds, the one-on-one cult

26. Ideological Totalism

27. Coercive Control and Attitude Change

28. An excellent site of RED FLAGS, and much more

29. Sam Vaknin's FAQS

30. The N's Pathological Envy

32. Profile of a Sociopath

33. One Perspective on Forgiveness

34. The Sidran site is an excellent trauma resource

35. The Inhumanity of the Other: Treating Trauma and Depression by Joerg Bose

36. Emotional Abuse

37. Domestic Violence

38. Bully On-line. Anti-Workplace Bullying pioneer Tim Field's site

39. An excerpt from George K. Simon's book, 'In Sheep's Clothing'

40. NPD Diagnostic Criteria

41. Sick or Evil?

42. 12 Rules of The Community Leading Con-Man

43.Cults: Public Perception vs. Research

Narcissism Bibliography

1. Richard Bandler, John LaVallePersuasion Engineering

2. Joel Kramer, Diana AlstadThe Guru Papers : Masks of Authoritarian Power

3. Herzel Yerushalmi, Ph.D.Psychobiographic Approach to Psychotherapy : A Study of the Power Structure of Psychotherapy

4.Donald B. Rinsley Developmental Pathogenesis and Treatment of Borderline and Narcissistic Personalities

5. Susan Forward, Ph.D, Donna Frazer Toxic In-Laws: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation and Guilt to Manipulate You

6. Susan Forward, Ph.D When Your Lover Is A Liar: Heal the Wounds of Deception and Betrayal

7. Janet Woititz Lifeskills of Adult Children

8. Ken Rutkowski Happy Between Relationships: How You Can Be Very Happy when Not Involved with a Partner for 12 hours or 19 Years

9. The Bad Seed - the movie

10. Robert B. Cialdini Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion

11. Mommie Dearest (video)

12.William March's bookThe Bad Seed

13. Nina W. Brown. The Destructive Narcissistic Pattern

14. Donald W. Black, C. Lindon Larson Bad Boys, Bad Men: Confronting Antisocial Personality Disorder

15. Andrew P. Morrison (Editor) Essential Papers on Narcissism

16. Adolph Guggenbuhl-Craig The Emptied Soul: On the Nature of the Psychopath (Formerly Published as Eros on Crutches)

17. Patricia Evans The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize It and how to Respond

18. Patricia Evans Verbal Abuse: Survivors Speak Out on Relationship and Recovery

19. Gerald Alper The Puppeteers: Studies of Obsessive Control

20. Philip C. McGraw Self Matters: Creating Your Life from the Inside Out

21. Gerald Alper Control Games: Avoiding Intimacy on the Singles Scene

22. Roy F. Baumeister, Aaron T. Beck (Editor) Evil: Inside Human Violence and Cruelty

23. Gerald Alper Portrait of the Artist as a Young Patient: Psychodynamic Studies of the Creative Personality

24. Cornell Woolrich's Waltz Into Darkness The Cornell Woolrich Omnibus: Rear Window, I Married a Dead Man & Waltz Into Darkness

25. Cornell Cowen, Melvyn Kinder Smart Women, Foolish Choices: Finding the Right Man, Avoiding the Wrong Ones

26. Dan Neuharth, Ph.D. If You Had Controlling Parents: How to Make Peace with Your Past and Take Your Place in the World

27. Richard D. Chessick, M.D., Ph.D. Psychology of the Self and the Treatment of Narcissism

28. Anne Katherine Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin? Do you know?

29. J. Brooks Bouson Empathic Reader: A Study of the Narcissistic Character and the Drama of the Self

30. Susan Forward Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life

31. Samuel Vaknin, Ph.D., Lidija Rangelovska (Editor) Malignant Self-Love: Narcissism Revisted

32. Theodore Millon, Roger Dale Davis Personality Disorders in Modern Life

33. Elsa F. Ronningstam (Editor) Disorders of Narcissism: Diagnositc, Clinical, and Empirical Impications

34. Arnold Rothstein The Narcissistic Pursuit of Perfection

35. Nathan Schwartz-Salant Narcissism and Character Transformation: The Psychology of Narcissistic Character Disorders, Vol. 9"

36. Peter L. Giovacchini Treatment of Primitive Mental States

37.Susan Murphy Milano Defending Our Lives: Getting Away from Domestic Violence and Staying Away

38.R.D.LaingThe Politics of Experience

39.R.D. LaingThe Divided Self

40. Patricia Riddle Gaddis Dangerous Dating: Helping Young Women Say No to Abusive Relationships

41.Grace H. Ketterman Verbal Abuse: Healing the Hidden Wound

42. Elaine Weiss, Ed. D., Forward by Michael Magill Domestic Violence: Voices of Women Who Broke Free

43. John N. Briere. Child Abuse Trauma: Theory and Treatment of the Lasting Effects

44. Stephen M. Johnson Humanizing the Narcissistic Style

45. Donald Kalsched The Inner World of Trauma: Archetypal Defenses of the Personal Spirit

46. Movie Stepford Wives -the movie

47.Babette Rothchild The Body Remembers: The Psychophysiology of Trauma and Trauma Treatment

48. Martha Stark, M.D. Working With Resistance

49.Marie-France Hirigoyen, et al

Stalking the Soul: Emotional Abuse and the Erosion of Identity

50.Martha Stark, M.D. Modes of Therapeutic Action: Enhancement of Knowledge, Provision of Experience, and Engagement in Relationship

51.Constance J. Dalenberg Countertransference and the Treatment of Trauma

52.Nina W. Brown. Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-Ups Guide to Getting over Narcissistic Parents

53. Patrick Carnes, Ph.D. The Betrayal Bond

54. Sheldon Bach, M.D. Narcissistic States and the Therapeutic Process

55. Abraham J. Twerski Addictive Thinking: Understanding Self-Deception

56.Elan Golomb Trapped in the Mirror: Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents in Their Struggle for Self

57. Susan Forward Emotional Blackmail

58. Stephanie Donaldson-Pressman, et al The Narcissistic Family: Diagnosis and Treatment

59. Heinz Kohut The Restoration of the Self

60.Phyllis Beren Narcissistic Disorders in Children and Adolescents: Diagnosis and Treatment

61. Mary Susan Miller, Ph.D. No Visible Wounds: Identifying Nonphysical Abuse of Women by Their Men

62.Margaret Thaler Singer (with Janja Lalich)Cults in our Midst : Psychological Persuasion Techniques

63.William Sargant< /i>Battle for the Mind

64.Michael D. Langone (Editor)Recovery from Cults

65.Flo Conway, Jim Siegelman< /i>Snapping

66.Steven Hassan Combating Cult Mind Control

67.Releasing The Bonds: Empowering People to Think for Themselves

68.George Orwell 1984

69..George Orwell Animal Farm

70. Charles L. Whitfield Healing the Child Within: Discovery and Recovery for Adult Children of Dysfunctional Familes

71. Theodore Millon (Editor), Erik Simonsen (Editor) Morten Birket-Smith (Editor) Roger D. Davis (Editor) Psychopathy

72. Manuel Smith Therapy When I Say No, I Feel Guilty: How to Cope--Using the Skills of Systematic Assertive Therapy--1st ed.

73. Beverly Engel The Emotionally Abused Woman

74. Lisa McCann, Ph.D, Laurie Anne Pearlman, Ph.D. Psychological Trauma and the Adult Survivor

75. Robert D. Hare Without Conscience

76. Debbie Ford, et al The Dark Side of the Light Chasers: Reclaiming Your Power, Creativity, Brilliance, and Dreams

77.SimonIn Sheep's Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People

78.M. Scott PeckPeople of the Lie: The Hope for Healing Human Evil

79.Toby Rice Drews Getting Them Sober: You Can Help

80.Otto F. Kernberg Borderline Conditions and Pathological Narcissism (Master Work Series)

81. Robert GreeneThe 48 Laws of Power

82. Rena Moses-Hrushovski Deployment: Hiding Behind Power Struggle As a Character Defense (Psychoanalytic Therapy)

83. Alexander Lowen, M.D. Narcissism

84. David T. Lykken The Antisocial Personalities

85. Andrew P. Morrison (Editor) Essential Papers on Narcissism

86. Adolph Guggenbuhl-Craig The Emptied Soul: On the Nature of the Psychopath (Formerly Published as Eros on Crutches)

87. Judith Herman, M.D. Trauma and Recovery

88. Pamela Jayne Ditch That Jerk: Dealing with Men Who Control and Hurt Women

89. Gavin De Becker The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence

90. Robert Jay Lifton Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism